tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21826039250771535282024-03-19T03:30:02.296-07:00Lilac AveMy business of eco friendly soy candles and spa products, mixed in with my life, including trying to be eco friendly, vegan, a military wife, taking care of my son on the autism spectrum, and Virginia!LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.comBlogger55125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-57952708294301437582013-12-13T10:25:00.000-08:002013-12-13T10:35:12.290-08:00Coming Back HomeAfter 2 1/2 years back in the corporate work force, I am coming back home, both figuratively and literally. It was a hard decision, but one that I made for my family and myself. I kept telling myself for months, that my kids were to an age where I should feel comfortable working. I kept thinking about how my husband will be retiring from the military in a year and a half, and me having a stable job would secure us. <br />
Then the tables started turning. I started feeling like, "is this it?", "is this what I want to do for the rest of my life?". I was so turned around, I wasn't even sure if I was happy at my job. I wasn't sure if the stress was workload, burnout or what. And what would burnout mean? Would it go away? <br />
At the same time, my kids were having issues. My son, who has high functioning autism, started middle school this year. It is a hard transition for kids on the spectrum. Not only do they have to prompt themselves for tasks, but they have to deal with puberty at the same time. I felt like all I was doing was nagging him. I felt like every sitter we hired, wasn't enough.....not necessarily the fault of the nanny. They were being judged against what I thought I would do if it were me home. My son needed help. Help keeping a schedule, help prompting him to have better hygiene, organizing his school work, ensuring he was getting enough sleep (he is an insomniac).<br />
And for my daughter, there are social issues. We have moved so many times in the last 5 years, she doesn't have that core set of friends that many 5th graders do. She doesn't have a best friend. And my sweet, sassy, artsy little girl, has my 'heart on sleeve' demeanor. The gossip, girl fights, and cattiness of 5th grade hits her hard. I wanted to be the one to dry her tears, give her advice, share in her day. <br />
By the time I was home from work everyday, not only was I emotionally withdrawn from the exterior I was told to put up at work ("leave your emotions at the door"), I was mentally exhausted. I was beaten, and had 3 hours per day with my kids to make them a meal, help them with homework, and get them to take showers etc. As you can imagine, this basically was a cranky mom barking orders. <br />
This was not the mom I wanted to be. This was not the me i wanted to be. I wasn't taking care of myself at all. And my biggest concern was, is this the life I wanted to live? Not to sound like a hipster, but YOLO!!!<br />
So even with just a year and a half until no guaranteed income, here we go, on a self discovery tour. I hope to use this blog in the coming year, to tell you what I've learned, share some DIY projects (I love working on my house), maybe some stories on my progress on healing and bettering myself, inside and out. And closer to the big day, getting into life transition from military to civilian. I hope you join me on the journey!LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-48577030940441425782011-09-28T13:13:00.000-07:002011-09-28T13:14:58.922-07:00Say What?!?!?!This may come as a big surprise to some people. It is not something I've openly talked to about, because frankly, until I was sure, I felt it would be bad business to talk about.<br />
Many of you who have been loyal fans to LilacAve know the story. I started LilacAve after I left my career in Fashion Merchandising, to be with my son who was diagnosed with High Functioning Autism. For a brief 7 months I did return back to my corporate life, only for us to start a whirlwind 2yrs, where we moved to Hawaii (7 months) to Georgia (16 months), and back to Virginia. During that 2yrs I put everything I had into LilacAve. My ultimate dream was to make the business into my income.<br />
While pursuing this "dream", our family made a lot of sacrifices financially, and we tried to concentrate our lives on doing things, and not material things. We tried to really concentrate on what we REALLY need versus what we wanted. It was almost like a recovery from the fast paced, buy everything we need, and don't need world before the economy crashed. <br />
At the beginning of this year, I felt like we really had "made it". I was earning some pretty big increases over previous years, and as exciting as that was....it was also exhausting. If you saw my blog back in June (<a href="http://lilacave.blogspot.com/2011/06/my-reality-of-owning-micro-business.html">My Reality of Owning a Micro Business</a>), you saw that I was starting to question some things about owning my own business as an income. What about vacation, what about 401k and retirement, what about growth plateaus? I was starting to worry about the feasibility of maintaining the perks....working in my PJ's, being home for my kids after school, freedom with my schedule, and still growing to the point that I could pay for my kids college and retire one day.<br />
Then summer came. Summer Business is like a Texas Summer. Usually it doesn't rain much.....but this year it was a full out DROUGHT! My business came crashing to a screeching halt. And not just slow for summer.......even slower (30-50% down from previous summers). It was heart breaking. It was exhausting. <br />
Back in about mid August, a series of events and random conversations, led me to start applying for jobs in my old career path. As I kept interviewing and talking about merchandising theory, balancing inventories, and managing financial plans based on sales, I got excited. I remembered the passion I thought was dead. The idea of co-workers, a steady income and vacation days, started to feel like a great big hug. <br />
This Monday I got a job offer. I was more giddy and stress free than I've been in quite some time. And the more I thought about what this means for <a href="http://www.lilacave.etsy.com/">LilacAve</a>, the more I thought, maybe it is time to let her go. <br />
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Say What?!?!?!?!<br />
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Here's the plan. It will NOT be right away. I have too much made candles, lotion bars, and lip balms to just close up shop. And at the moment I am at 1899 Etsy sales. I propose I will stay open until 2000 sales. <br />
After that, my Etsy shop will close but my facebook business page will live on. I am hoping after a hiatus, I will start to yearn to make candles, and fabulous spa like products again. I will want to be adventurous and smell new things, make new things. I'll miss old things (like Blueberry Cobbler and Wood Wicks). I will start to make things, and post them for sale via my Facebook page. <br />
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I leave this blog post, thanking my customers for your encouragement, your praise, and being my "work" for over 3yrs. However, I'm not leaving our friendship, it is just going to evolve. <br />
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Much Love,<br />
Deb<br />
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P.S. To help me get to my goal and to Thank You..... any time between now and the closing use THANKYOU coupon code and save 25%.<br />
**you cannot use 2 coupon codes coinciding**<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.lilacave.etsy.com/"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgC4_3n_9WMwv0oB_C3Op04LZ85Us5qS6nlEyricj3BWq3yhp4szJ6hRbFwJSrWhOyvi05lnJO7naDx2DSjUvIz4brLDLw35FOdD9SjlTsJa1zv34wKBfmyC6XBjmNF1kwUEzb_v_iCM908/s200/Avatar.png" width="200" /></a></div>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-80010923557355431312011-08-20T08:33:00.000-07:002011-08-20T08:33:47.086-07:00This vs That session 2, with MCFWe had a great response to the <a href="http://lilacave.blogspot.com/2011/08/this-vs-that-mcf-style.html">1st blog post of this versus that</a>. I wanted to do another one, again with my folks from <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/MilitaryCircleofFriends">Military Circle of Friends</a>. <br />
This vs That is to showcase, that you don't always have to go with the best known names to get the best stuff, sometime handmade is just a better value and a better quality, as well as more unique.<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.godiva.com/product/caramel-pecan-bark-gift-tin/id/2254.gdv?SE_Section=Shop&SE_Category=132&lastCat=132"><img height="200" id="ctl00_pageContent_Main_imgProductImage" src="http://www.godiva.com/assets/images/prodimg/2254-z.jpg" style="border-width: 0px;" width="200" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><a href="http://www.godiva.com/product/caramel-pecan-bark-gift-tin/id/2254.gdv?SE_Section=Shop&SE_Category=132&lastCat=132">Caramel Pecan Bark from Godiva is $25 for 12oz</a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/52148893/chocolate-pecan-pie-candy-like-momma"><img border="0" height="188" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcpAzDYSRsQzFcNvIqnkOElXjTUUhgCdXssrI6V86Cqea5awl64jhq4R_eXXP23skGVBlUpWuoQYFmBXoENjM4u_B6795CGPpKExXgEtk8dpBl47D2TIERSGbFX-ErAboLY9lqWceaYw0p/s200/il_570xN_260640291.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/52148893/chocolate-pecan-pie-candy-like-momma">Chocolate Pecan Pie from Nicole's Handmade Treats 1lb (16oz) for $18</a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Personally, I think <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/nikid">Nicole's</a> looks better. I would also bet hers is more fresh, and her customer service more personalized. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.gymboree.com/shop/dept_item.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524446001724&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302778163&ASSORTMENT%3C%3East_id=1408474395917465&bmUID=1313853087261&productSizeSelected=0&fit_type="><img alt="Gem Flower Corsage Hair Clip" border="0" height="200" id="p-picture" src="http://s7ondemand1.scene7.com/is/image/Gymboree/140084364?$PRODMAIN$" width="159" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><a href="http://www.gymboree.com/shop/dept_item.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524446001724&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302778163&ASSORTMENT%3C%3East_id=1408474395917465&bmUID=1313853087261&productSizeSelected=0&fit_type=">Gem Flower Hairclip from Gymboree $6</a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/76879428/pink-and-white-petals-kanzashi-fabric"><img alt="Pink and White Petals Kanzashi Fabric Flower Hair Clips" height="320" src="http://ny-image3.etsy.com/il_570xN.254054939.jpg" width="212" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/76879428/pink-and-white-petals-kanzashi-fabric">Pink and White Kanzashi Flower Clip from Hold It $7</a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I don't think this felt clip from Gymboree holds a candle to this well made, and more substantial hair clip from <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/HoldsIt">Hold It</a>. Plus the Hold It shop has countless colored and patterned options. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.brooksbrothers.com/IWCatProductPage.process?Merchant_Id=1&Section_Id=377&Product_Id=1013263&Sub_Product_Id=1013264&default_color=White"><img height="200" id="il_fi" src="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-thing?.out=jpg&size=l&tid=16951480" style="padding-bottom: 8px; padding-right: 8px; padding-top: 8px;" width="200" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><a href="http://www.brooksbrothers.com/IWCatProductPage.process?Merchant_Id=1&Section_Id=377&Product_Id=1013263&Sub_Product_Id=1013264&default_color=White">Brooks Brothers Womens Handkerchief (2) $25</a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/76033725/monogrammed-something-blue-bridal"><img alt="Monogrammed Something Blue Bridal Embroidered Handkerchief" height="200" src="http://ny-image1.etsy.com/il_570xN.220330781.jpg" width="188" /></a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/76033725/monogrammed-something-blue-bridal">Monogramed Handkerchief from Elegant Monograms is $17</a></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div>If you are going to use a handkerchief for your big day, or if you just love the old time elegance of it....you are not doing it right, if it isn't beautifully monogrammed, and have a delicate lace edge, like this one from <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/HeatherStrickland">Elegant Monograms</a>. She does a fabulous job of offering a wide variety of monograms and embroidery, to get you the exact sentiment and aura you need for this beautiful accessory.<br />
LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-44996171570599308722011-08-19T07:16:00.000-07:002011-08-19T07:18:05.074-07:00Jennifer Harruff makes me a DressI am 33. Yep. And when I was a tween and a teen, the cool places to shop were Contempo and Wet Seal. My mother hated these places. Loud music and higher prices than JCPenney, where we almost always shopped, since my father worked for the company and we got a discount. <br />
I remember vividly once while shopping for school, it was when the baby doll dresses with tees underneath were the BIG thing (Can we say soooo 90210, people). I begged my mother to go into Wet Seal and there was a sundress I fell in love with for $49.99. My mother did not want to buy it (yes Mom, I still remember it to this day). <br />
Why do I mention this???? Well let's think about that, it was likely 20yrs ago. I'm much larger than I was then (so more material), and I love things much more unique than what I did back then. And ummmm, I just got a STEAL!<br />
My friend, <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/jenharruff.etsy">Jennifer Harruff</a>, just made me a custom dress. All for $48.50 SHIPPED (pricing will vary). I got to pick the fabrics, and she is making it based on my measurements. It is something made ESPECIALLY for me.....for a mere $48.50. <br />
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As per last nights <a href="http://lilacave.blogspot.com/2011/08/this-vs-that-mcf-style.html">blog post of this vs that</a>, all I have to say is handmade rocks, and you usually are going to get something better made, with better service (than Wet Seal for sure), and perfect for you! Look at some handmade options, support a small business owner, BEFORE you go out to the mass market. You'd be surprised at the value, the charm, and the quality craftsmanship and service that people of our generation have forgotten about to get mass market and convenience that we have been taught is the "fun" and "stylish" way to go from commercialism. <br />
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As a sidenote, Jennifer Harruff is also a member of the <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/MilitaryCircleofFriends">Military Circle of Friends Team</a> on Facebook. Check us out to see <a href="http://www.facebook.com/LilacAve">Lilac Ave</a>, <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/jenharruff.etsy">Jennifer Harruff</a>, and many more talented artisans.LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-78165652242611445902011-08-18T17:49:00.000-07:002011-08-18T17:50:01.790-07:00This vs That, MCF Style!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><br />
This vs That is a comparison of goodies you could buy at a chain retail store versus the handmade counterpart. This edition is doing the comparison up against my <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/MilitaryCircleofFriends">Military Circle of Friends (MCF)</a> gang.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1077506828">Hovering Agate necklace by Anthropologie $38</a></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/33128603/amethyst-amulet-heal-thy-self-necklace">Amethyst Amulet by Winddancer Designs $39</a></td></tr>
</tbody></table><a href="http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/catalog/productdetail.jsp?id=22789044&catId=JEWELRY-NECKLACES&pushId=JEWELRY-NECKLACES&popId=JEWELRYACCESSORIES&navCount=78&color=050&isProduct=true&fromCategoryPage=true&isSubcategory=true&subCategoryId=JEWELRY-NECKLACES-DELICATE"></a> Personally I like the necklace by <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/winddancerdesigns">Winddancer Designs</a> better; there is a lot more detail and finishing touches, for practically the same price. Not to mention, I'd rather buy handmade. <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/30545911/black-and-creme-zebra-print-zippered">Black and Creme Zebra Pouch from A Stones Throw $10</a></td></tr>
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<span style="font-size: small;">The above is a clutch from the Gap. Not only is the wristlet from <a href="http://www.astonesthrow.etsy.com/">A Stones Throw</a> 20 bucks less expensive, but the fabric instead of PU (yuck, is right) makes it washable, for those times when your lipstick cap fall off, or if you have an isue with a pen getting loose.</span> <br />
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<img alt="Echo 'Quilt Stitch' Newsboy Cap" height="320" src="http://g.nordstromimage.com/imagegallery/store/product/Gigantic/7/_6511047.jpg" width="208" /><br />
<a href="http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/echo-quilt-stitch-newsboy-cap/3191228?origin=category&resultback=225">Echo Newsboy Cap from Nordstrom's $35</a><br />
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<img alt="Womens Cotton Visor Buckle Newsgirl or Newsboy Cap - White" height="320" src="http://ny-image2.etsy.com/il_570xN.193207114.jpg" width="259" /><br />
<a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/61917448/womens-cotton-visor-buckle-newsgirl-or">White Buckle Newsgirl from Two Seaside Babes $37</a><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Not only is the <a href="http://www.twoseasidebabes.com/">Two Seaside Babes</a> hat made by a handcrafting artisan, but it is also 100% cotton (the Echo hat is an acrylic/nylon/spandex blend). And if you ask me the design looks sturdier and more complex than the Echo hat from Nordstrom's. </span><br />
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<a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1077506862"></a><a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=57827&vid=1&pid=862934"></a>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-40303803686039748602011-08-12T14:42:00.000-07:002011-08-12T14:43:24.710-07:00Where the 'Magic' HappensSounds like an episode of 'Cribs', right?!? Well I'm not an aging rock star and this ain't that type of magic! This is where I turn coconut oils, beeswax, and soy wax, along with many other things to create the fabulous items of LilacAve. <br />
We finally moved back into our house on Lilac Ave back in mid July. I had set up shop "sorta" in our smallest room, but last night my daughter decided she wanted the smaller cozier room, and I could have the bigger room. This room will double as a guest room when we have people, so it does have a full sized bed in it....which I think will likely serve as a dog bed for my assistant, Bear. But the rest of the 12' by 14' room is mine.<br />
What actually worked out well, is I tried to use every excess piece of furniture and repurposing it versus buying bookshelves and 'new' things. As a military family, we move all the time, and it seems in the past we've always needed to buy and sell things to work in whatever new space we have. This time not only were finances a constraint, but I was tired of being wasteful. So I thought I would share some of the ways this space was repurposed.<br />
<ul><li>The green folding rack was originally bought as an easy fold and go display for craft shows. In its off season I used it for its intended use as a plant stand. Here it works great at holding my fragrance oils, microwave and soy wax. I *would have* likely bought a microwave cart for this. So using this plant stand instead actually saved me $50-150</li>
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<ul><li>This white bookcase we have used for actually several moves. It was a black color, but I love it in this white color. It will be holding all my finished product. Saved me $75-100 (granted this wasn't a repurpose, just a reuse).</li>
<li>The table is actually my utility table for craft shows. Underneath it is all my packing materials, and on top will be my actual work space for setting candles, soaps, etc. </li>
<li>Here is a sewing station. The white cabinet we inherited from our renters. They left this over the toilet cabinet in our master bath. Instead of ditching it to the curb, I thought I could use it for extra storage. I am thinking during Craft show season, I will have my husband saw off the legs, and I will use it as a table top display. This saved me $50. Right now it holds my boxes I use for tarts, tealights, and soaps. The folding table was also painted white from black. I bought it from TJ Maxx about 4 yrs ago, and let me tell you, there is nothing as versatile as a large folding table. It has been everything from a TV stand, craft table display, computer desk and more. </li>
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<ul><li>Inside the closet I have little closetmaid shelves that were bought for a craft show set up that didn't work so well. They've also been used for toy bin storage for my kids, and closet organizers. Right now they are working fantastic as my glass storage. I sure am glad we lugged these around and even kept them when we were not using them. They are $15/ea, so these 4 would've costed $60-$80 brand new. </li>
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And even though this room was originally supposed to be my daughter's....I'm kind of diggin her 'Cozumel' Teal choice for the walls....I feel so exotic in there!LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-25749049839772126872011-08-06T16:39:00.000-07:002011-08-06T16:39:51.610-07:00Has a Fundraiser Ever Smelt so Good!As some/many of you know, my husband is in the Navy. And as some of you know, he just found out he is a Chief Selectee. Chief is a pretty big deal in the Navy.....my husband could tell you the heritage, as that is something he is supposed to know in the next 6 weeks before he gets pinned "Chief". All I know, is it's a big deal, and in the next 6 weeks he has to do a lot of stuff to prove he is worthy. <br />
One of the things Chief Selectees have to do, is fundraise. Well, unfortunately for my husband he will be out to sea doing, who knows what, for 1/2 of the time period he is supposed to be raising money. I figured I could come up with an idea, and a means to help him. <br />
So here it is. I will be doing a candle fundraiser for the month of August. You can pick any scent you'd like from the below list for your candle. The candle will be $10, with $5 Shipping (no shipping for locals of course!). I am so generous that all $10 will go to those selectees towards their fundraising efforts. <br />
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The candles are 9oz and ina glass tumbler, with a USN sticker adhered to the side. After your candle FINALLY burns out (should last 40-50hrs), you can clean out the glass tumbler with hot water, soap and a rag, and you'll have a great little glass piece to do anything you like with. And of course my everlasting love, that you helped not only support my husband, but all the selectees, the US Navy, and America (doesn't that sound patriotic!). <br />
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Here is an Etsy Listing for this item. <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/79261527/chief-fundraiser-soy-candle-jar-9oz-you">Chief Selectee Fundraiser Candle</a>. You can purchase via Etsy, or from my <a href="http://www.facebook.com/LilacAve">Facebook page</a>. If you purchase via Etsy please put your scent choice in the comments. If you are local, and don't want to pay the $5 shipping, please contact me via my <a href="http://www.facebook.com/LilacAve">Facebook page</a> or via comment here.<br />
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Scent List:<br />
Bayberry<br />
Blueberry Cobbler<br />
Clothesline<br />
Cucumber Mint<br />
Gardenia<br />
Ginger Peach<br />
Green Apple<br />
Lavender<br />
Lavender&Peppermint<br />
Lavender&Vanilla<br />
Lemongrass<br />
Lemongrass&Vanilla<br />
Lemon&Lavender<br />
Mandarin & Coriander<br />
Oatmeal Honey Almond<br />
Pearberry<br />
Peppermint<br />
Peppermint & Vanilla<br />
Pumpkin Souffle<br />
Vanilla Bean<br />
White Peach and HibiscusLilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-6105629489439685172011-07-26T08:11:00.000-07:002011-07-26T08:11:59.121-07:00Lessons Learned from Summer 2011I need to make a mental note to look back at this post, come April/May of 2012. I know that summer is not yet over. School starts up here 6 weeks from today. We have been on summer break for 10 weeks now. So I think I've experienced enough to reflect on some lessons learned in business, life, and summers as a work at home Mom.<br />
<ol><li>Business is not fractionally slower, it is DEAD. I had mistakenly thought, that summer sales would be 33%, maybe 50% less than my sales tend so far for 2011. This was NOT the case. I found it is not a % less. There seems to be a glass ceiling. For instance, let's say my average sales in 2010 were $500/mo, and in summer went to $330. My business instincts were preparing for, if average sales were $1500/mo, that they would become $1000/mo. When in reality....they were still $330 (numbers not exact, just explaining a point). So next year, instead of completely stressing out about it, and instead of having multiple failure sales and promos, just ride the wave...accept it will be slow and just "Let it Be".</li>
<li>See above.....so instead, the kids are home, let's have FUN! At the beginning of summer, I had been freaking out hoping I could get the kids into camps, so I could work and keep the momentum going with the business. I pushed camp. Although my son enjoyed Lego Camp ($205), and my daughter loved Horse Camp ($245), they were both stressful. The driving back and forth, the jealousy's, the MONEY. Worse yet was me trying to pay for a Mon, Wed, Fri morning daycamp (Mom's day out type thing). Sounded good, but at $90/week for just 9hrs, and no sales coming in, it was STRESSFUL. It ended up costing me more than $90/wk, since the registration was $170 (all numbers are for both kids together, so $45/wk and $85/ea registration). This daycamp lasted 3 weeks before I realized we couldn't afford it, and the kids were not enjoying it. So in total we spent $890 to camp-ify summer. And it could've been spent better. How???</li>
<li>DO Buy all the memberships you can get your hands on! We bought a membership to the <a href="https://www.cnic.navy.mil/jeblcfs/MWR/Fitness/Aquatics/index.htm">waterpark at Little Creek</a>. It was $125 for the 3 of us, but would've been $15 a visit to go. The kids love it there, and it is a fairly relaxing 2hrs whenever we go. We got a membership to the <a href="http://www.virginiaaquarium.com/plan-your-visit/pages/hours-admission.aspx">Virginia Aquarium</a> for $150...this one is great for days we need to stay indoors BUT get out of the house. We haven't gotten the chance to buy a membership for the <a href="http://www.virginiazoo.org/membership/renew-your-membership.asp">Virginia Zoo</a> yet, but it is $75 for military families. Also movies on base at Little Creek are $2/person. So with the $890 spent on camps for a total of 5 weeks, we could have gotten A waterpark, aquarium, zoo, and over 5 trips to the movies for just $500 (not to mention the beach is FREE)!!! We can also enjoy our YMCA membership during summer, kids using the interactive zone while I work out and just a swim in their pool...at $88/mo it is a bit...but even adding that in to the $500, we still come out cheaper than the camps. Plus YMCA offers a free parents night out for members. And since we don't need to worry about business too much (see #1) then we could just sit back and enjoy. The kids will only be kids once!</li>
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</tbody></table>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-6176942331445415432011-07-22T07:20:00.000-07:002011-07-22T07:21:42.559-07:00And the winner is........................#8<br />
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So who is #8...look at the 8th comment down! It's:<br />
<span style="color: #38761d; font-size: x-large;">Beth Thompson!!!!</span><br />
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Congrats Beth!LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-58433856217258449742011-07-21T08:31:00.000-07:002011-07-21T08:31:19.802-07:00Happy Anniversary!!!!<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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</tbody></table>Here we are at our 3rd Anniversary for LilacAve. I like to tell people just starting out, how when I started LilacAve, my dream was to sell an 2 items a week. I thought that would make me happy. since then, we've grown to be an income for my family, and that has been a huge gift and a reward. The journey has not been without challenges, but it has been quite a ride. Cheers to continued growth and always raising the bar a little higher.<br />
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To celebrate making it this farm we have been celebrating! Here is the last of the 3 celebrations!!!<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;">GIVEAWAY!!!!!</span></strong></div><em><span style="font-size: large;">Entering is super duper simple! Just post on this blog, your 3 favorite things about LilacAve. It could be a product, it could be something about the values of the company, it could be you like my hair....whatever. Just name the 3 things you like best! Tomorrow morning a winner will be picked, and they will get a FREE 3 month Scent of the Month membership!!!!</span></em><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><img alt="Scent of the Month Club 3 months" height="185" src="http://ny-image1.etsy.com/il_570xN.240130057.jpg" width="200" /><img alt="Scent of the Month Club 3 months" height="185" src="http://ny-image1.etsy.com/il_570xN.240130061.jpg" width="200" /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img alt="Scent of the Month Club 3 months" height="196" src="http://ny-image3.etsy.com/il_570xN.240130067.jpg" width="200" /><img alt="Scent of the Month Club 3 months" height="195" src="http://ny-image3.etsy.com/il_570xN.240130063.jpg" width="200" /></div>What is the <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/73155381/scent-of-the-month-club-3-months">Scent of the Month membership</a>. The 1st week of every month, you get to sample the scent of the month, by receiving: <br />
(1) .6oz Soy Tart<br />
(2) tea lights<br />
(1) 1oz Body Butter<br />
(1) 1oz Bath SaltLilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-84173551271278796162011-07-16T06:13:00.000-07:002011-07-16T06:22:50.914-07:00Who, What, Where, When, is the MCF Auction?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgS8QmTKFETo9d5PHwq1s4JnOjmSs4KeV-AfhCuSyhl4mJJusNjLyk52VX5SBxB_S6pfB5C8t-3nClowBoAIGbxocfda16BjaCjItyMvD4SVh0sMQ_gvQ3wgX75ICDskSLvau6e7ZIAxlND/s1600/auction.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="267" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgS8QmTKFETo9d5PHwq1s4JnOjmSs4KeV-AfhCuSyhl4mJJusNjLyk52VX5SBxB_S6pfB5C8t-3nClowBoAIGbxocfda16BjaCjItyMvD4SVh0sMQ_gvQ3wgX75ICDskSLvau6e7ZIAxlND/s320/auction.gif" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div>Back in Spring of 2008, I was a newbie on Etsy, and my bud Kristin, aka <a href="http://www.facebook.com/MooseThreads">Moose Threads</a>, convinced me to join an Etsy team of Military spouses. This team was so amazing. Not only did they give me business advice, but they were there for me while my husband was deployed. I will never forget all our chats and fun and support. We built long lasting friendships. Some of these friendships so strong, that I have and they have gone out of their way for us to meet in person. And with everyone I have met, we have talked non-stop for hours. Never had I been involved with a group so diverse in religion, backgrounds, politics etc, that were so respectful, and non-caddy in a group. <br />
Well, as times change, so did that Etsy team. So did we...as many of us now have sites off Etsy, no longer have shops, etc. But we still have our friendships. So recently we created a group on Facebook where we can chat and stay in touch. This evolved to also include a business page, where we could help promote each other, whether our shops have their own websites, whether we sell predominantly on Facebook, or even if we just have some great stuff to share. <br />
To kick off this military friends page, we thought why not have an <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/event.php?eid=231464313550995">auction</a>. So many of us do similar things on our business pages individually, that we thought having one as a group, and introducing our clientele to our favorite shops, would be fabulous! I can vouch for every participant. Not only are they fabulous artisans, but they are also some pretty awesome women!<br />
I invite you to like our <a href="http://www.facebook.com/militarycircleoffriends">fan page</a>. And please attend the <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/event.php?eid=231464313550995">auction</a>, sometime between 8pm and midnight EST tomorrow (Sunday). Even if you don't bid (although bidding ends at midnight EST), please just come to see this fantastic sampling of items from this group. You won't be sorry!!!!<br />
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MCF 1st EVER Auction<br />
Sunday July 17th<br />
8pm-Midnight EST<br />
Direct Link <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/event.php?eid=231464313550995">http://www.facebook.com/#!/event.php?eid=231464313550995</a><br />
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Some of the fabulous shops participating:<br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/LilacAve">www.Facebook.com/LilacAve</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/Memoriestoyou">www.Facebook.com/Memoriestoyou</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/TwoSeasideBabes">www.Facebook.com/TwoSeasideBabes</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/DancingBearsTeaHouse">www.Facebook.com/DancingBearsTeaHouse</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/BadCatJewelry">www.Facebook.com/BadCatJewelry</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/wanderingwhimsies">www.Facebook.com/wanderingwhimsies</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/ReynaRed?sk=wall#!/ReynaRed">http://www.facebook.com/ReynaRed</a>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-25836929963043457462011-07-04T07:52:00.000-07:002011-07-04T08:05:45.297-07:00Not Absolute: A Vegan-ish Story UpdateMerriam Webster defines Absolute as <span class="st">a : free from imperfection : perfect b : free or relatively free from mixture : pure</span><br />
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<span class="st">I can tell you this, it has been 5 weeks since I decided to try leaning towards vegan. Prior to that, I wasn't even a vegetarian...probably the closest description was somewhat 'clean eating'...i.e tried to eat organic fruits and veggies, and grass fed, no hormone meat, etc. So it was a big change. And I *knew* it was never my expectation to change overnight. </span><br />
<span class="st">I can claim that I am pretty much a full fledged vegetarian. I have had meat twice in that 5 week period, and oh boy, it is no longer for me. Not only was it not enjoyable...but it made my stomach sick. And what I thought particularly interesting, is I wouldn't wake up hungry. Why? Probably because my body was still digesting the meat. In my mind, a little gross to think about. </span><br />
<span class="st">I have been able to get used to coffee with soy milk (if I get soy creamer from Trader Joe's even better). I have had soy lattes from Starbucks. I have had vegan frozen yogurt from a local chain called "The Skinny Dip". I even had a fabulous vegan pizza from "ZPizza".</span><br />
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<span class="st">This being said, I do not claim to be "vegan". I do order cheese pizzas, I have had milk, when we are out of Soy, and yes, I have been known to sprinkle milk chocolate chips on my vegan ice cream. However, the way I am currently seeing it, is that in 5 weeks, I have been able to NOT eat about 68 servings of meat (would've been 70 except for those 2 meat occasions). I have also drastically lowered my consumption of dairy, even if it is not completely phased out. </span><br />
<span class="st">I think there is an expectation from our society, that if you are trying something like this it needs to be all or nothing. I feel like I am just trying to do better when I can, and maybe with time some of the other things will follow suit. I have to say, living in a more trendy area (Virginia Beach vs Rural Southeast Georgia) has made it alot easier, as restaurants offer choices. And although weight hasn't "melted" off as Kathy Freston says in her book. I am 1lb down from 5 weeks ago. This may not sound like much. But when you consider the 10lb gain in a month I had last time, I tested the vegan waters, I'd say I am doing pretty well. And regardless of weight, I feel like I get to try more adventurous food choices than before (like the Skinny Dip offers 1 Vegan flavor, so the other day I had Peach flavored..because that was the choice...why not). I feel lighter. My skin seems a bit clearer (although not today....used sunscreen on my face yesterday and so there is an uprising!!).</span>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-6495200075006698372011-06-27T04:27:00.000-07:002011-06-27T04:27:21.520-07:005 Tips for Opening an Etsy Shop<div class="blogEntryContent"><span class="fw_sanitized"> Want to open an Etsy shop? Here are 5 tips to get you started. Etsians.....I'd love you to comment on any more tips you have!<br />
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#1. At least 30 items, but the more the better. I'm currently at 207, but when the bath line comes out, that may double. Think of it like if you walked into a store, would just a few items likely have exactly what you are looking for? What about if there was a whole table? A whole store? <br />
Keep in mind this is not Ebay, where there is a ton of traffic and easy to sell, at cheap prices. <br />
Having listings is MORE than just on an item of interest, get into your shop, and buy something totally different. <br />
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#2. List and/or renew regularly. By regularly, I mean daily. So when you are about to open, if you have 10 items to list, you may want to list 5 right away, and then list 1 item a day after that. Again, it puts you to the top of the search and gives a doorway to your shop.<br />
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#3. Photos are SUPER important. Remember you are selling a buying experience, not just the item. Etsy tends to like light colored backgrounds.Taking pictures in a place in your home that gets natural light, on a partly coudy day, is what works best for my camera. Some people need it really sunny, others need to actually go outside, some use a light box. With your camera turn the micro on (the flower sign), flash off, and take the photo. Use photo editing software and mess with the contrast and brightness until you feel it looks fresh. It doesn't cost money to use all 5 of the pics in your listing, so use them all if you like (closeups, side view, art photo). <br />
I don't recommend a dark background, white, bright, or colored is best. Think of what you are selling, and the feel of your shop. Set the stage for that "feel".<br />
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#4. Have a facebook or twitter page for your business. Invite your friends and ask them to invite their friends. You can use it as a free prmotional tool when you list something new, want to have a sale, or whatever. <br />
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#5. When you can, product branding can help (i.e. avatars, logos, banner), you can still sell without it, but it does set the stage for your shop. <br />
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Well, about a month ago, we moved back to Virginia. For those that don't know, we own our house here, and are currently working on it to make it ready for us to move our stuff in (pics will be in a blog post in the future). <br />
Last night we were over at our house, visiting with the inlaws who are here to help, and to work a little more on the yard, and discuss more work to be done. And last night, the fireflies were out. My son caught one in his hand and we all watched as they would glow and go dark, and glow some more. To me it was magical. <br />
<div style="text-align: center;"><img height="293" id="il_fi" src="http://questional.com/images/uploads/97/Lightning-bug-on-a-plant.jpg" style="padding-bottom: 8px; padding-right: 8px; padding-top: 8px;" width="293" /></div>Our neighborhood although in Virginia, reminds me a lot of the house I grew up in, in Rivervale, New Jersey. There were fireflies there too. A mix of all sorts of houses, big and small, brick and siding, no sidewalks, and tall trees making a canopy over the neighborhood. <br />
As my children were in awe of the fireflies, and enjoyed the summer air (and the mosquitos), it felt like we have been able to give them a piece of my own childhood. <br />
Then in the car on the drive back to the house we are temporarily staying in, the CD played, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1bFr2SWP1I">"Somewhere over the Rainbow" by Israel "IZ" Kamakawiwoʻole</a>. The kids were talking about how it reminds them of Hawaii. My daughter talked about how her teacher would play the Ukelele for them, and we could go to the beach every day. We talked about our adventures and memories there. <br />
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I realized in that moment how beautiful this life we are giving them is. They get to carry the good parts of our past, have adventures that not everyone gets to have. When they are older and look back, maybe it won't just be the lapses of time without their Dad, or the leaving friends in different places as we move....maybe it'll be of lightning bugs, beaches, ukeleles, walks in the summer night, and love.LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-10930039350970636382011-06-23T07:23:00.000-07:002011-06-23T07:33:00.795-07:00Why Buy Handmade?<div style="text-align: center;"><span class="fw_sanitized"> <a href="http://blog.craftzine.com/archive/2008/10/handmade_nation_embroidery_pat.html"><img height="277" id="il_fi" src="http://blog.craftzine.com/HandmadeSublime.jpg" style="padding-bottom: 8px; padding-right: 8px; padding-top: 8px;" width="320" /></a></span><br />
<span style="font-size: xx-small;"><em>to see details about this embroidery stitch or learn more about the movie Handmade Nation, click image.</em></span></div><br />
I have been crafting for "business" for almost 3yrs now. I think I am so far entrenched in Handmade, Etsy, and small businesses that I think EVERYONE sees it like I do. Then I have to stop and remind myself, that not everyone knows what Etsy is, not everyone sees the modern version of handmade. So here are my thoughts. <br />
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I'm not saying I never shop at Walmart (although it does make my skin crawl) or that I don't love Target and other mass marketers. there is definitely things there that are not available from online handmade artists (Legos); And I know they rely on the dollars of patrons as well, but there is a huge differences. <br />
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#1. As a seller, I know this, and from all the sellers I am friends with, I know this....a sale can make our day. If you decided to go to Walmart and buy a purse, or a hat, or a candle...it probably is just a drop in the bucket. In ways it really would make no difference. There are many many sellers on Etsy (and other handmade venues) that when you buy an item in their shop, they jump up and down, they smile, they scream and shout, they tell all their friends "I MADE A SALE". We celebrate when we hit 100 sales, we celebrate at 500, 600, 1000. Every sale is appreciated. When I buy from a fellow handmade, small business entrepreneur, I'm not just getting an awesome, unique, well crafted item...I get the inner satisfaction of knowing that my buy brought happiness to the seller, and made a difference in their life. And I am not the only one...check out why this blogger loves buying handmade...especially LilacAve ;) <a href="http://www.differentshadesofgreen.com/2011/06/things-i-love-lilac-ave.html">http://www.differentshadesofgreen.com/2011/06/things-i-love-lilac-ave.html</a><br />
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BTW, this is not just for online handmade businesses. Shop Local!!! We want to support them.<br />
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#2. Customer Service. I mean really, these days, even in these hard times, I find decent customer service is hard to find. No one wants to thank you (if they do,l it is a not so sincere, monotone, scripted "Thank you, have a nice day"). Small businesses are obsessed with their businesses and making them work. Their thanks is a sincere "THANK YOU for choosing ME!". Usually their appreciation is shown in little touches of great customer service, like courteous replies, apologies when things go wrong, and the motivation to fix it, little gifts, handwritten notes, careful packaging.LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-81569607087980624222011-06-19T16:44:00.000-07:002011-06-19T16:44:13.105-07:0020 Questions with BeckyZ Photography<span class="fw_sanitized"> </span><br />
<div style="text-align: left;">Becky Zeugin is one of my oldest friends. I first met her at an Elementary school playground in 3rd grade. We became BFF's for years; through hair bands, 1st concerts, 1st kisses, 1st loves, 1st broken hearts.</div><br />
Becky was not a photographer, back in our previous life, but when I saw her recent works, I was jaw droppingly in awe. "My Becky" turned into such an incredible talent. I am so proud of her, and a huge fan of her work. I'm sure you will be too. So here it goes...let's get to know her!<br />
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<strong>1. Your favorite color:</strong> teal<br />
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<strong>2. Dream Vacation:</strong> anywhere tropical<br />
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<strong>3. Favorite movie:</strong> Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl<br />
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<strong>4. Favorite Artist:</strong> Kelley Ryden <a href="http://kelleyryden.com/blog" target="_blank">http://kelleyryden.com/blog</a><br />
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<strong>5. Best Advice EVER?</strong> Do what you love, don’t follow money –my dad<br />
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<strong>6. Motto:</strong> Dare to dream and dream BIG<br />
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<strong>7. Like Pets?</strong> YES! I have two doggies and a cat<br />
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<strong>8. Lifechanging Event:</strong> the birth of my children and my nephews <br />
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<strong>9. Your Best Trait:</strong> Patience (although my children test how strong it is on a daily basis!)<br />
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<strong>10. Your Flaw</strong>: I lack organizational skills – big time!<br />
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<strong>11. What craft do you wish you could do?</strong> Knit – I will teach myself to do it one of these days.<br />
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<strong>12. Favorite Season:</strong> Spring, I love a good Texas thunderstorm!<br />
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<strong>13. Favorite Holiday:</strong> Thanksgiving – I love to eat!<br />
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<strong>14. Boots, Sneakers, Flip flops, Heels, Mary Jane’s or Barefoot?</strong> Fip-flops<br />
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<strong>15. Favorite Treat:</strong> Grande Peppermint Mocha Frappuccino<br />
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<strong>16. Most recent item added to your Favorites:</strong> <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/65577831/ready-to-ship-chunky-newborn-cap" target="_blank">http://www.etsy.com/listing/65577831/ready-to-ship-chunky-newborn-cap</a><br />
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<strong>17. Blog?</strong> <a href="http://www.beckyzphotography.com/blog" target="_blank">http://www.beckyzphotography.com/blog</a><br />
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<strong>18. Facebook?</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/BeckyZPhotography" target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/BeckyZPhotography</a><br />
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<strong>19. Twitter?</strong> <a href="http://www.twitter.com/BeckyZPhoto" target="_blank">http://www.Twitter.com/BeckyZPhoto</a><br />
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20. Shop?<br />
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Can't help but share some more with you!!!!<br />
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<div align="left">I've long been an admirer of <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/levansphotography?ref=top_trail" target="_blank">Laura Evans Photography</a>. Her Style is gorgeous and recognizeable. Amazing portraits as well as amazing art prints!</div><br />
I thought, it would be interesting to see what this Brit, and fellow Military Spouse has to say, in her 20 questions!<br />
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<strong>1. Your favorite color</strong>: green in various shades, right now i'm loving lime green but also a fan of mint green<br />
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<strong>2. Dream Vacation</strong>: vietnam, cambodia, laos & the camera ... but anywhere i can escape, i love being in the south of france, & california is amazing. <br />
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<strong>3. Favorite movie</strong>: top gun ... I am a dork i know<br />
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<strong>4. Favorite Artist</strong>: I don't have one, but at the moment eric church is pretty high up<br />
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<strong>5. Best Advice EVER?</strong> don't cry that it's over ... smile because it happened<br />
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<strong>6. Motto:</strong> love laugh believe<br />
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<strong>7. Like Pets?</strong> i have a husband & 2 kitties i'm a little obsessed with<br />
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<strong>8. Lifechanging Event</strong>: there have been a few but marrying my husband is pretty high ... oh yeah & getting pregnant <img alt=":)" src="http://static.websimages.com/JS/Punymce/plugins/emoticons/img/smile.gif" /> <strong><em>Since this originally posted, Laura is now Mama, to a gorgeous baby boy!</em></strong><br />
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<strong>9. Your Best Trait:</strong> <strong><em>Come on Laura...you can't leave this blank! I'll state the obvious....you are a talented photogapher, and you have a sincere and beautiful spirit!</em></strong><br />
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<strong>10. Your Flaw:</strong> stubborn, argumentative ... the list is endless<br />
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<strong>11. What craft do you wish you could do?</strong> printing of all kinds<br />
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<strong>12. Favorite Season:</strong> the next one<br />
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<strong>13. Favorite Holiday</strong>: i'm not sure i have one<br />
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<strong>14. Boots, Sneakers, Flip flops, Heels, Mary Jane’s or Barefoot?</strong> flip flops<br />
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<strong>15. Favorite Treat:</strong> a night to myself<br />
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<strong>17. Blog?</strong> <a href="http://www.lauraevansphotography.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">www.lauraevansphotography.blogspot.com</a><br />
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<strong>18. Facebook?</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Laura-Evans-Photography/81776348168?v=wall" target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/pages/Laura-Evans-Photography/81776348168?v=wall</a><br />
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<strong>19. Twitter?</strong> <a href="http://twitter.com/levansphoto" target="_blank">http://twitter.com/levansphoto</a><br />
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<strong>20. Shop?</strong> <a href="http://www.levansphotography.etsy.com/">http://www.levansphotography.etsy.com</a><br />
<a href="http://www.oohprettyshiny.etsy.com/">http://www.oohprettyshiny.etsy.com/</a>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-66587384889688731212011-06-15T08:37:00.000-07:002011-06-15T08:37:58.627-07:00Nothing Died...a Vegan-ish UpdateI have to say this journey is teaching me about myself...some things that I have learned; Some wins, losses, realizations.<br />
<ul><li>I have conquered vegan coffee. I'm having coffee with soy creamer and Stevia. I think this was more of an aquired taste...not finding the "solution".</li>
<li>I can do vegetarian pretty easy. Vegan is still a challenge. But I'm leaning.</li>
<li>Speaking of leaning....I realized I hadn't been letting myself lean. I was outright trying to say no "X"...and going from an American diet, to vegan overnight, and that is a bit of a challenge. I realized I can't let myself be black and white...I need to let myself have the gray areas and that's ok. My nature tends to see a goal and work to get to that goal fastest. I forget all I had previously said...that I was just going to be concious, and if I thought I could get by without the dairy, I would, and where I still really wanted it I would...and without guilt. </li>
<li>Last night, after evaluating the above, and reading in Kathy Freston's book, "Veganist", its ok to take it step by step...and a good first step is just to cut out birds (chicken, turkey, etc). I thought, I may get a burger while we are out to dinner. After we got there, I realized I din't want to. We were at Red Robin, and there, they will substitute the meat in any burger for a Boca Burger or a Veggie Burger. I ordered my old favorite, a Whisky BBQ Burger, with a Veggie Burger instead of meat. This burger granted is not the healthiest choice on the block. And it has cheese which is what makes my version vegetarian but not vegan. However, can I tell you....it was delicious, and tasted no different to me than the old favorite. And Normally, I can taste a veggie burger (I like veggie burgers, but they cannot be mistaken for a burger). P.S. I also had their sweet potato fries, yumm. </li>
<li>If you recall, as much of an animal lover as I am, this was more about health, and more about what I had been reading meat can do to the human body, and the added saturated fats, etc. Well, what is interesting, last night I was willing to throw that out the window and having a burger. And I didn't....and I felt happy that Nothing died for my meal. So maybe it is a little about that. </li>
<li>Right now, I am content being a vegetarian. And I am trying not to set too many rules on being vegan. I am totally down with having a burrito with no sour cream and no cheese (must have guac though). I am ok with Vegan ice cream. I am ok with Vegan lattes and coffee. I am ok with not snacking on chunks of cheese. I'm ok with making smoothies without yogurt and just soy or rice milk. Not sure I can avoid ranch dressing, cheese pizza, or cheese on my burger yet. But I think I am leaning in just fine, thank you....and trying oh so hard, not to feel guilty for the things I haven't given up yet. </li>
<li>I would like to say, I have an ax to grind with Kathy. If you remember I said last time I tried vegan I gained weight. This time I am doing better....but my weight is just maintaining. I would just like to say, although this is about health....not weight loss, it is still so hard for someone who struggles as I do to read over and over and over in a book, how the weight will just melt off without even trying and without counting calories. I find this to be completely untrue. Granted....again, I have not been a perfect vegan. but given in the last 2 1/2 weeks, I have given up meat, and reduced my dairy intake by more than half...I would think, if her addage is true, something would be lost. </li>
</ul>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-4261330237110943432011-06-14T05:39:00.000-07:002011-06-14T06:12:09.428-07:00Etsy versus My Own .comRecently, I had 2 polls on this blog. One of them pertained to my website <a href="http://www.lilacave.com/">www.LilacAve.com</a>. In that poll, about 30% of those answering said they feel more comfortable shopping on Etsy. I had a hunch this was true. After chatting with a friend of mine, she said maybe I should point out some things, so folks feel more comfortable. <br />
<div style="text-align: center;"><img alt="Lavender Peppermint Soy Tarts" height="193" src="http://ny-image1.etsy.com/il_570xN.201175937.jpg" width="200" /></div>You may wonder why, as fabulous as Etsy is, a shop would want to branch out to their own .com. Well there are several answers. <br />
<ol><li>Would it surprise you to know, around 9-11% of the sales, at <a href="http://www.lilacave.etsy.com/">LilacAve</a> go to etsy? Now don't get me wrong. I love Etsy and the service they give me is worthwhile, I could never complain about the exposure and traffic they've helped me get....they are why LilacAve is here! But if I were able to make the same sales through my site, that number would be more like 1-2%. Granted this is ignorant to paypal or Google checkout fees, which are unavoidable. I would like to think if there were less fees that money could be reinvested into more products, more research, better promotions, and marketing better. </li>
<li>For me, a big reason why I was gung ho, is remember 1000 markets? If not, here is the cliff notes. 1000 Markets was a handmade shopping site, like Etsy, but it was juried. I think it was a Monday they announced they had sold it, and by Friday the site no longer existed, as it was bought by Bonanza, which is not a handmade site. What is to say one day Etsy is not sold to Ebay? What if it changes, and drastically affecting my business? I need to not have all my eggs in one basket. And I don't see Zibbet, Artfire, or any of the zillion others being an advantageous fall back to Etsy. </li>
<li>Control is another biggie. I know this is true for many of us, starting our own .coms. If you don't know...on Etsy you are limited to 10 categories, and each item can only be in 1 category. So for instance my "<a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/72886527/tart-of-the-month-club-3-months-of-soy">Tart of the Month</a>" listing is under <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/LilacAve?section_id=7372799">'Special Listings'</a>...I cannot also put it under <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/LilacAve?section_id=7053839">'Tarts'</a>. Or recently I was asked if I could set up my shop by scent. Not only would I be limited by the 10 categories...but I could not have a Bath Salt under both Categories, 'Bath Salt' and 'Lavender' for instance. Having your own .com can allow you to do these things. This does not even begin to get into, the control over the look and feel in entirety of your own webpage.</li>
</ol><div style="text-align: center;"><img height="164" id="il_fi" src="http://www.workathomenoscams.com/wp-content/uploads/Big_The_Etsy_Logo.jpg" style="padding-bottom: 8px; padding-right: 8px; padding-top: 8px;" width="320" /></div>Now here are the things, that I'm thinkin', are why you have the comfort level with Etsy.<br />
<ol><li>I think you may feel like Etsy will provide you buyer protection. This is actually not true. If you have an issue with a seller, Etsy will not step in. However, if you paid with Paypal...they will! Paypal would also step in if you need protection while buying from a .com and paying with paypal. So no worries there! </li>
<li>On Etsy you can see the sales number and Feedback. I get this one...I do! I know I do not have a ticker on my site showing my sales. However, some food for thought may be....websites are not cheap. I recently spent $200 to get mine set up the way I wanted, and much more if you consider the time I put into it, and the monthly fee. I wouldn't do this if I wasn't serious about my business. Also websites like Amazon.com, Overstock.com and others don't have sales tickers, yet there is not a physical place to walk into to complain if things go wrong. Small Handmade businesses may not have the mass merchant allure in protection...but I know so many of these sellers, and we are just struggling to get our footing as small businesses. We want to grow, we want to stand on our own 2 feet one day. And of all the ones I know, we care more about great customer service than these big guys do! It's personal pride in our work! Not to mention I know a couple folks that actually sell better on their .com than Etsy, so their Etsy numbers are actually deceiving.</li>
</ol>Are there other things that hold you back? <br />
I'm not trying to sway you from buying on Etsy. I love Etsy,<strong> I</strong> buy on Etsy all the time. All I'm saying is if you've ever bought from a seller or are a fan on their Facebook page...consider checking out their .com next time around. Take the leap!<br />
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Here are some sites of people I know are on Etsy, but also have their own .com:<br />
Lilac Ave<br />
<a href="http://www.lilacave.com/">www.LilacAve.com</a><br />
<a href="http://www.lilacave.etsy.com/">www.LilacAve.etsy.com</a><br />
Two Seaside Babes<br />
<a href="http://www.twoseasidebabes.com/">www.TwoSeasideBabes.com</a><br />
<a href="http://www.twoseasidebabes.etsy.com/">www.TwoSeasideBabes.etsy.com</a><br />
DB Designs Jewelry<br />
<a href="http://www.dbdesignsjewelry.com/">www.dbdesignsjewelry.com</a><br />
<a href="http://www.dbdesigned.etsy.com/">www.dbdesigned.etsy.com</a><br />
Geek Details<br />
<a href="http://www.geekdetails.com/">www.geekdetails.com</a>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-68502000019695116232011-06-13T17:59:00.000-07:002011-06-13T17:59:29.962-07:0020 Questions with Ahoy Graphics<span class="fw_sanitized"> </span><br />
Today's 20 Questions, is with the fabulous Kristen Hodges of <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/AhoyGraphics" target="_blank">Ahoy Graphics</a>. I met Kristen through the <a href="http://www.etsy.com/teams/6421/homefront-team" target="_blank">Homefront Team</a>, but was so thrilled to meet her in person, and be on the HRAST Team with her (lovingly we referred to it as "Harrassed"...but really the Hampton roads Artisans Street Team). <br />
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She is a lovely person....seriously, 'lovely', all inclusively describes her. Her craftsmanship is meticulous and she has a very strong hard working ethic, and just such a sweet and generous person.<br />
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When I met her, she had a gorgeous album shop, called Fly Leaf Designs, and then she had created a new venture called Pins and Paper. However, leaving those behind and delving into her passion for logos, marketing, and design, she is now a butterfly, as Ahoy Graphics. She is responsible for my logo and worked with me on my branding. It was a wonderful experience, she was very flexible, and very professional. I highly recommend her! PLUS, she is a fellow Navy wife, so what can you do!<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><img class="spotlight" src="http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/73509_164696993563036_120823374617065_371947_723817_n.jpg" /></div><br />
<strong>1. Your favorite color:</strong><br />
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Pool Blue + Eggplant Purple {so hard to choose just one!} <br />
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<strong>2. Dream Vacation:</strong><br />
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Italy<br />
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<strong>3. Favorite movie:</strong><br />
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Pirates of the Caribbean trilogy <br />
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<strong>4. Favorite Artist:</strong><br />
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Cesar Chevaz {I love Hispanic Art!} <br />
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<strong>5. Best Advice EVER?</strong><br />
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Belief determines your destination, behavior determines your compensation. <br />
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<strong>6. Motto:</strong><br />
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Mean what you say and say what you mean. <br />
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<strong>7. Like Pets?</strong><br />
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LOVE! Parson Russell Terriers in particular <img alt=":)" src="http://static.websimages.com/JS/Punymce/plugins/emoticons/img/smile.gif" /> <br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><img alt="Kristen Hodges" class="img" src="http://profile.ak.fbcdn.net/hprofile-ak-snc4/173352_100000736435802_5832655_n.jpg" /></div><br />
<strong>8. Lifechanging Event:</strong><br />
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Corey joining the Navy—what a huge change this lifestyle was for us. <br />
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<strong>9. Your Best Trait:</strong><br />
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Organization<br />
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<strong>10. Your Flaw:</strong><br />
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Being a doormat when I become too much of a people pleaser <br />
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<strong>11. What craft do you wish you could do?</strong><br />
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Bookbinding<br />
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<strong>12. Favorite Season:</strong><br />
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Autumn<br />
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<strong>13. Favorite Holiday:</strong><br />
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4th of July—boating, swimming, picnic-ing, and lots of loud music on the Tennessee River with family and friends, can't beat that... <br />
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<strong>14. Boots, Sneakers, Flip flops, Heels, Mary Jane’s or Barefoot?</strong><br />
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Flip Flops<br />
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<strong>15. Favorite Treat:</strong><br />
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Berries dipped in a bowl of sugar! <br />
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<strong>16. Most recent item added to your Favorites:</strong><br />
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Personalized hangers for a baby shower gift <img alt=":)" src="http://static.websimages.com/JS/Punymce/plugins/emoticons/img/smile.gif" /> <br />
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<strong>17. Blog?</strong><br />
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I write a blog for my shop: Sell More with Design 101. It relates to Design, Branding, Community, and Marketing. <a href="http://www.ahoygraphics.com/category/sell-more-101/" target="_blank">www.ahoygraphics.com/category/sell-more-101/</a> <br />
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<strong>18. Facebook?</strong><br />
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Yep! <a href="http://www.facebook.com/ahoygraphics" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/ahoygraphics</a> <br />
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<strong>19. Twitter?</strong><br />
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And double yep! <a href="http://www.twitter.com/ahoygraphics" target="_blank">www.twitter.com/ahoygraphics</a> <br />
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<strong>20. Shop?</strong><br />
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I have a little shop on Etsy for my design work: <a href="http://www.ahoygraphics.etsy.com/" target="_blank">www.ahoygraphics.etsy.com/</a> <br />
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Some Examples!<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><img class="spotlight" height="172" src="http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/183520_192638904102178_120823374617065_546863_5840690_n.jpg" style="height: 172px; width: 188px;" width="216" /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img class="spotlight" height="514" src="http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/168428_187226741310061_120823374617065_512537_5082847_n.jpg" style="height: 171px; width: 208px;" width="500" /></div><div style="text-align: left;"> </div><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><img class="spotlight" height="208" src="http://a3.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/167390_176914529007949_120823374617065_448427_3958425_n.jpg" style="height: 198px; width: 203px;" width="211" /> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><img class="spotlight" height="449" src="http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/60574_152501331449269_120823374617065_309424_569960_n.jpg" style="height: 196px; width: 199px;" width="417" /></div><div style="text-align: left;"> </div><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><img class="spotlight" height="191" src="http://a3.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/184736_192640610768674_120823374617065_546866_7334509_n.jpg" style="height: 104px; width: 462px;" width="720" /></div>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-86028000462454795352011-06-11T07:43:00.001-07:002011-06-11T07:43:27.275-07:0020 Questions with Susan Sabo Photography<div class="blogEntryContent"><span class="fw_sanitized"> Recently I was cruisin my Activity feed on <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/LilacAve" target="_blank">Etsy</a>. I noticed my friend Robin (aka <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/CreationsAnew" target="_blank">CreationsAnew</a>), had favorited this shop, <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/susansabophotography" target="_blank">SusanSaboPhotography</a>. I like Robin, am a dog lover. I saw the BEST dog photos EVER! I had to look more. Then I saw that some photos were of shelter dogs, and the sale benefitted these poor sweet pooches. I was sold, hook, line, and sinker for this fabulous shop. The only disap[pointment, in that, she lives on the other side of the country, so she can't do some portraits of my dog, Bear. <br />
I knew I had to know more about the mastermind behind it. And I HAD to share her, with everyone I knew! Here she is.....Susan Sabo.<br />
<div align="center"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/69912175/jumping-with-my-dogs" target="_blank"><img alt="jumping with my dogs" height="361" src="http://ny-image3.etsy.com/il_570xN.226621527.jpg" style="height: 361px; width: 373px;" width="570" /></a></div><strong>1. Your favorite color:</strong><br />
hands down blue.<br />
<strong>2. Dream Vacation:</strong><br />
a trip to the Artic Circle. I want to actually step inside the circle.<br />
<strong> 3. Favorite movie:</strong><br />
"Halloween" (1978 version)<br />
<strong>4. Favorite Artist:</strong><br />
Bob Dylan<br />
<strong>5. Best Advice EVER?</strong><br />
that I've received? "always know who you're talking to"<br />
that I've given? "always know who you're talking to."<br />
<strong>6. Motto:</strong><br />
It's not Christmas till somebody cries.<br />
<strong> 7. Like Pets?</strong><br />
omg, are you kidding? i've had every kind of pet you can image. I'm a dog person. have lots of dog-related tattoos; collect dog art; I shoot for free for local rescues and shelters and I'm all about adopting and saving a life.<br />
<div align="center"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/70113266/windows-to-the-soul" target="_blank"><img alt="windows to the soul" height="641" src="http://ny-image0.etsy.com/il_570xN.227460928.jpg" style="width: 424px;" width="570" /></a></div><strong>8. Lifechanging Event:</strong><br />
My dog, Stiggy's death.<br />
<strong>9. Your Best Trait:</strong><br />
My independence.<br />
<strong>10. Your Flaw:</strong><br />
self-criticism.<br />
<strong> 11. What craft do you wish you could do?</strong><br />
sculpture with metals and welding.<br />
<strong>12. Favorite Season:</strong><br />
summer<br />
<strong> 13. Favorite Holiday:</strong><br />
Halloween<br />
<strong>14. Boots, Sneakers, Flip flops, Heels, Mary Janes or Barefoot?</strong><br />
barefoot<br />
<strong>15. Favorite Treat:</strong><br />
vegan cupcake made by my daughter, Jenna.<br />
<strong>16. Most recent item added to your Favorites:</strong><br />
a t-shirt with a camera on it.<br />
<div align="center"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/69905004/peleis-eyes" target="_blank"><img height="292" src="http://ny-image3.etsy.com/il_fullxfull.226590971.jpg" width="464" /></a></div><strong>17. Blog?</strong><br />
same as my site: <a href="http://www.susansabophotography.com/" target="_blank">http://www.susansabophotography.com</a><br />
<strong>18. Facebook?</strong><br />
<a href="http://facebook.com/susansabophotography" target="_blank">http://facebook.com/susansabophotography</a><br />
<strong>19. Twitter?</strong><br />
susansabophoto or smalldogs<br />
<strong>20. Shop?</strong><br />
<a href="http://etsy.com/susansabophotography" target="_blank">http://etsy.com/susansabophotography</a><br />
<div align="center"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/69905793/glee" target="_blank"><img alt="glee" height="604" src="http://ny-image0.etsy.com/il_570xN.226593728.jpg" style="height: 604px; width: 413px;" width="570" /></a></div></span></div>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-40506013734308016472011-06-10T06:29:00.000-07:002011-06-10T06:29:45.185-07:00I had directed a friend to my blog yesterday, to show her pictures of <a href="http://lilacave.blogspot.com/2010/06/homefront-photography.html">my pets</a>. She ended up reading on and found a <a href="http://lilacave.blogspot.com/search/label/Life%20and%20Family">2 year old post on my son, who has Autism</a>. I re-read it this morning, and realized so much has happened in the last 2 years, and I wanted to share some pin points of happenings and what I learned. <br />
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<ul><li>I understand Autism Awareness, and feel there should be therapies to help make these kids cope better....but I struggle with the idea of a "cure". Granted Ethan is High Functioning, but I think I'd rather help him deal with his emotions without taking away the most incredible lines of thought he has. Ethan is brilliant. He only has to see something once, and he remembers it. He wonders how it works, and comes up with theories and ideas...way more out of the box than a typical 9yr old. </li>
<li>There are situations to avoid and situations to encourage. Ethan still does not do well in chaotic, not well supervised environments. Lunch lines, buses, gym class, field trips, daycare. So Ethan does not go to daycare...this is why I have LilacAve. I drive him to school...which actually gives us time to chat. I will chaperone field trips. Can't do much about gym or lunch lines....but helping what I can helps both of us.</li>
<li>I could care less what anyone thinks in public. I know for many this is a huge struggle. You have a normal looking kid, acting like a 3yr old in a store or a restaurant. You know what, stare all you want, think I am a bad parent...you have no idea, and your opinion doesn't matter to me, nearly as much as handling my kid and his triggers.</li>
<li>Thanks to a Doctor in Hawaii, for making me realize I am a good mom for Ethan. We went to a luau. I forgot this is the worst situation for Ethan. Crowded, weird food, loud, out of routine. He started to melt down. My Dad snapped at him. (this makes him melt down more, because he knows people are disappointed in him). Comments were made to me about my parenting. Talked about it at Ethan's therapy session. I explained all the things I should've done differently. I discussed what I thought was the triggers. Dr. Miller commended me for understanding my son so well. This lifted me up, while it was being incinuated at home by my father, that I was not tough enough on him.</li>
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<ul><li>Speaking of being tough. Hardest lesson learned.....stay calm!!!!! Nothing pushes him into more of a meltdown than yelling at him.</li>
<li>He can't take a joke. True story, we are cooking dinner, and he says "Is this what we are having for dinner?". Husband says, "Well its what me and mommy are having....not sure about you two." (said in sarcasm, as it is obvious, I was making dinner, and we always all eat it). Ethan starts to cry, that we are not feeding him dinner. This one is hard to break as me and the hubs are fluent in sarcasm.</li>
<li>Peer pressure does not work on him. He could care less if he makes a scene in class, in front of the neighborhood friends, or if "everyone is doing it". A blessing and a curse. Curious to see if this changes in time.</li>
<li>He is getting better in social situations, but still has a hard time not playing one sided (he tells you the game, and your place in it). He did however, make his very first bestie in Georgia. And the kid was the Alpha....Ethan would politely play along. So he is capable. We just have to harness it.</li>
<li>We can talk. He is better about trying to think through his feelings. Probably the most common thread in our house is, you have to tell us what's bothering you before we can fix it. He was melting down yesterday when his sister had friends over...it wasn't until later when he was calm, that it was all about the TV being too loud. But he never voiced that. </li>
<li>He has gone to the movies and Sea World and done great...these are places we never could have gone before. </li>
<li>Traveling is still a struggle, and moving transitions are still weird. Last move it was pooping in pants....since we moved back to Virginia, its insomnia. Hopefully the stability of not moving again, will iron out these issues. </li>
<li>He can empathize for his sister. When we were in Georgia and he was in therapy, he would get a prize while leaving. He always asked for one for his sister. He also worries about her if she's hurt. Not to say they don't have the normal sibling rivalries or competitiveness.</li>
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These are just snippets. But I'd like to say, at 9yrs old, I am no longer worried for Ethan. There are days he is still a struggle, but we deal. Most days he is an incredible mind, a sweet heart, and just a quirky, loveable kid.LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-67214300744470809212011-06-09T05:11:00.000-07:002011-06-09T06:20:59.278-07:0020 Questions with Nice Girl Notes<div class="blogEntryContent"><span class="fw_sanitized"> </span><br />
<span class="fw_sanitized"><div style="text-align: left;">I'll admit it....I'm not usually a huge blog reader. I know, I know. I do read articles people recommend or found helpful, and I have a couple of friends that I follow, but otherwise, not really. Then I met Roo...</div>It started off with a note on<a href="http://www.facebook.com/LilacAve" target="_blank"> my Facebook wall</a>, asking me if I was interested in participating in the 1st <a href="http://www.nicegirlnotes.com/get-your-eye-black-on" target="_blank">Cute Stuff Sale</a>. If you are an Artisan, you likely get requests for giveaways and reviews often, and they are usually kind of ho hum for business. But when she explained to me, basically she will just be selling my stuff...I just need to offer great prices and support her, then I figured, 'sure, why not'. That night was magical!!!! Rare is the day<strong> I</strong> can sell 10 items on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/LilacAve" target="_blank">my facebook page</a>...and here she was with ease on<a href="http://www.facebook.com/NiceGirlNotes" target="_blank"> hers</a>. <br />
After that we worked together to create a special event for military spouse artisans on the Homefront Team. During that time, not only did I get hooked on <a href="http://www.nicegirlnotes.com/" target="_blank">her blog</a>, but I got to work with her as a partner, and have to say, what an incredible business partner she is. I love her to pieces. I love knowing her brain through her blog (you MUST read <a href="http://www.nicegirlnotes.com/a-little-crisco-a-lot-of-spandex" target="_blank">this post</a> on Spanx). I love her spirit on entrepreneurialism (is that a word?). You seriously have no idea what you are missing, if you don't <a href="http://www.facebook.com/NiceGirlNotes" target="_blank">follow her on FB</a>, and <a href="http://www.nicegirlsnotes.com/" target="_blank">read her blog</a>. <br />
Here is her 20 questions!<br />
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<strong>1. Your favorite color:</strong> Without realizing it, I've decorated my house in shades of light blue, cream, and a little bit of red. So I'm guessing those. Ha!<br />
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<strong>2. Dream Vacation:</strong> Somewhere tropical with my husband and kids AND a nanny. Maybe two.<br />
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<strong>3. Favorite movie:</strong> Love any sort of action/comedy, and of course I pretty much love Reese Witherspoon in just about any romantic comedy she's in.<br />
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<strong>4. Favorite Artist:</strong> Currently my 2.5 year old. She's not just drawing scribbles any more.. and it's really fun to see how her brain works. <img alt=":)" src="http://static.websimages.com/JS/Punymce/plugins/emoticons/img/smile.gif" /><br />
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<strong>5. Best Advice EVER?</strong> Give generously, spend wisely<br />
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<strong>6. Motto:</strong> Because I'm in the throes of toddlerhood and general craziness right now? FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT.<br />
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<strong>7. Like Pets?</strong> I like dogs. <img alt=":D" src="http://static.websimages.com/JS/Punymce/plugins/emoticons/img/biggrin.gif" /> Maybe when the kids are older. <br />
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<strong>8. Lifechanging Event:</strong> When Whole Foods opened near me. And when Starbucks offered their salted caramel hot chocolate. OH, jk? Getting married and having my kids? <img alt=":)" src="http://static.websimages.com/JS/Punymce/plugins/emoticons/img/smile.gif" /><br />
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<strong>9. Your Best Trait:</strong> Compassion? Sure, compassion!<br />
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<strong>10. Your Flaw</strong>: Dang, which one? I'm a perfectionist, which means I never get everything done. That's annoying. Also, I can't meal plan to save my life. But I'm working on it.<br />
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<strong>11. What craft do you wish you could do?</strong> Oh my gosh, I wish I could sew! <br />
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<strong>12. Favorite Season:</strong> Summer! <img alt=":D" src="http://static.websimages.com/JS/Punymce/plugins/emoticons/img/biggrin.gif" /><br />
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<strong>13. Favorite Holiday:</strong> Thanksgiving, because it's not about frantic gift giving. It's about frantic meal making. Hahaaa.. but I do love having the people I love around a table, breaking bread, and being grateful for what God's given us. <br />
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<strong>14. Boots, Sneakers, Flip flops, Heels, Mary Jane’s or Barefoot?:</strong> Flip flops for every day. Heels for nights out.<br />
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<strong>15. Favorite Treat</strong>: I can't keep nuts in the house due to my daughters' allergies, so anything with chocolate and peanut butter.<br />
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<strong>16. Most recent item added to your Favorites:</strong> Some chevron quilts. <img alt=":)" src="http://static.websimages.com/JS/Punymce/plugins/emoticons/img/smile.gif" /> <br />
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<strong>17. Blog?</strong> <a href="http://www.nicegirlnotes.com/" target="_blank">www.nicegirlnotes.com</a><br />
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<strong>18. Facebook?</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/nicegirlnotes" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicegirlnotes</a> <--WE HAVE SO MUCH FUN HERE <br />
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<strong>19. Twitter?</strong> <a href="http://www.twitter.com/nicegirlnotes" target="_blank">www.twitter.com/nicegirlnotes</a><br />
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<strong>20. Shop?</strong> None. But I like all of yours!<br />
</span></div>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-33362068861510618942011-06-08T13:00:00.000-07:002011-06-08T13:00:29.214-07:00Mango Avocado Salad<div align="center"><img src="http://lilacave.webs.com/avo.jpg" /></div><br />
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So one morning I had Today with Hoda and KathieLee on, in the background.? Hoda was going on and on about this "salad" she can't get enough of.? It was Avocados, Mangos and a dressing.? No lettuce in this salad....which granted some salads are great...but you can really only have so much lettuce, and this was different.? And God knows I love Avocados.<br />
So here is a recipe for a single setting (this with a little side, is enough to fill me for lunch).<br />
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1/2 Avocado, cut into little pieces (cubes, slivers...whatever floats your boat)<br />
1/2 Mango, cut into little pieces <br />
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Then mix in a little dish:<br />
1 tsp Balsamic Vinegar<br />
1 tsp Lemon juice, Lime juice, or a combo of both<br />
1 tsp Olive Oil<br />
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Stir it around, and then drizzle over the cut up mango and avocado.? There is your lunch!LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2182603925077153528.post-11909236860072352922011-06-08T04:03:00.000-07:002011-06-08T04:03:53.744-07:0020 Questions with Memories to You and Holds ItI met Kim, online a little over a year ago. Since then she is my online"co-worker", a fellow military wife to go to, and a great source for business advice. Not only is she intelligent and savvy, but a fabulous handmade craftsman. <br />
Kim is the proud creator and innovator behind two Etsy shops, Memories To You and Holds It. I have items I've purchased from both shops. They are perfection. She leaves no stone unturned in her master craftsmanship; Her finishing details are incredible. <br />
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So without ado, here is her 20 Questions:<br />
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<div align="center"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/53407936/kanzashi-fabric-flower-headband-red-and?ga_search_query=red&ga_search_type=user_shop_ttt_id_5775308" target="_blank"><img alt="Kanzashi Fabric Flower Headband Red and Black Leaves Photo Prop" height="335" src="http://ny-image0.etsy.com/il_570xN.164709036.jpg" style="height: 303px; width: 410px;" width="570" /></a></div><br />
<strong>1. Your favorite color:</strong><br />
Red <br />
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<strong>2. Dream Vacation:</strong><br />
A trip to Italy <br />
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<strong>3. Favorite movie:</strong><br />
I don't have any 1 movie that is a favorite. I love comedy and chick flicks. I rarely see Oscar winners! <br />
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<strong>4. Favorite Artist:</strong><br />
Honestly, I love Thomas Kincaid. His pictures make me smile and feel at peace. <br />
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<strong>5. Best Advice EVER?</strong><br />
Don't complain about the stuff you can change. But the best advice I give my son is "suck it up buttercup." <br />
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<strong>6. Motto:</strong><br />
I don't have one! <br />
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<strong>7. Like Pets?</strong><br />
Yep. I have two large, hairy dogs who were my babies before the baby came along. <br />
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<strong>8. Lifechanging Event:</strong><br />
I would have to say my mom's death. I was 22 and realized I wasn't as grown up as I thought I was. It was during that time I learned to stand up for what I want. <br />
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<strong>9. Your Best Trait:</strong><br />
My wit <br />
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<strong>10. Your Flaw:</strong><br />
I can be a tad bit judgmental.<strong> </strong><br />
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<div align="center"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/56334652/9x12-french-memory-board-or-bow-holder" target="_blank"><img alt="9x12 French Memory Board or Bow Holder - Zen Garden Brow, Black, White" height="583" src="http://ny-image3.etsy.com/il_570xN.174500355.jpg" style="height: 357px; width: 320px;" width="570" /></a></div><br />
<strong>11. What craft do you wish you could do?</strong><br />
I wish I could sew! <br />
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<strong>12. Favorite Season:</strong><br />
Summer<br />
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<strong>13. Favorite Holiday:</strong><br />
Easter<br />
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<strong>14. Boots, Sneakers, Flip flops, Heels, Mary Jane’s or Barefoot?</strong><br />
Hmmm. I'm barefoot at home all the time but when I leave the house it is usually in heels. Unless I'm going to the gym and then it is sneakers. <br />
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<strong>15. Favorite Treat:</strong><br />
Chocolate Cheesecake<br />
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<strong>16. Most recent item added to your Favorites:</strong><br />
These sexy corset cookies :-) <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/56429115/sexy-corset-cookies" target="_blank">http://www.etsy.com/listing/56429115/sexy-corset-cookies</a><br />
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<div align="center"><img alt="Sexy Corset Cookies" height="573" src="http://ny-image2.etsy.com/il_570xN.174815806.jpg" style="height: 411px; width: 319px;" width="570" /></div><br />
<strong>17. Blog?</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.memoriestoyou.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">www.memoriestoyou.blogspot.com</a> but I hardly ever update it. <br />
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<strong>18. Facebook?</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/memoriestoyou" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/memoriestoyou</a><br />
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<strong>19. Twitter?</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.twitter.com/memoriestoyou" target="_blank">www.Twitter.com/memoriestoyou</a><br />
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<strong>20. Shop? </strong><br />
<a href="http://www.memoriestoyou.etsy.com/" target="_blank">www.memoriestoyou.etsy.com</a><br />
or <br />
<a href="http://www.holdsit.etsy.com/" target="_blank">www.holdsit.etsy.com</a>LilacAvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16522026995920263810noreply@blogger.com0